Why are You Trying to Be Viral, Not Valuable in Real Estate?
- Collette Stone
- 5 days ago
- 3 min read
Let’s have a real talk about how to fix this.
Most agents are showing up on TikTok, Instagram, and Reels with one goal in mind: to go viral. But here’s the truth: virality is a dopamine hit. Value builds a business.
If you’re spending hours editing a trending lip-sync, copying hooks from someone else’s niche, or mimicking the latest audios hoping to hit 100K views, you might get attention, but you won’t get appointments.
Because people aren’t looking for entertainment from their Realtor. They’re looking for someone who can guide them through a major life decision with clarity, confidence, and trust.
The agents winning right now? They’re not focused on being famous. They’re focused on being known for something that matters.
The Rise of Real Content in Real Estate
One of TikTok’s most-followed real estate creators didn’t build her business off polished posts or scripts. She didn’t hire a videographer or plan an entire editorial calendar in year one.
She just told the truth.

Why Authenticity Matters More than Perfection
A raw, unfiltered story about a frustrating experience with a builder struck a chord with thousands. Not because it was fancy. Because it was real.
The video didn’t just blow up—it built credibility. And that credibility turned into closings.
That’s the power of storytelling. Not for the algorithm, but for the connection.
The Algorithm Is a Mirror
People think social media is a slot machine. Post enough and maybe you’ll win.
But the algorithm is more like a mirror. It reflects what you put out, and it amplifies what resonates.
If you’re putting out fluff, followers will scroll past. If you’re putting out value—the kind that solves real problems, answers real questions, and shows real people—you build equity.
Not social equity. Business equity.
You want leads? Start leading.
Here’s What to Stop Doing Immediately:
1. Trying to Be Viral Instead of Valuable
Trends come and go. But a buyer who says, 'I trust you' sticks around. Focus your energy on content that helps, teaches, or opens hearts.
2. Performing a Persona Instead of Being a Pro
You don’t need to act like someone else. Real estate is already high-stakes for your clients. What they crave is calm, clear, and confident, not cute.
3. Over-Perfecting Every Post
If you’re editing your voice out of every video, you’re also editing out your authority. Post the messy take. That’s the one people remember.

And Here’s What to Do Instead:
1. Lead With a Story They’ll Never Forget
What’s one moment in your real estate career that changed you? Start there. People will lean in when they feel like they’ve just overheard something personal and true.
2. Talk to One Person, Not the Internet
Imagine your ideal client is sitting across the table from you, confused, hopeful, and searching for answers. Speak to them. Not to 'views.'
3. Pick Your Pillar and Go All In
Are you the market explainer? The renovation realist? The calm in the chaos? Own it. Consistency isn’t boring—it’s branding.
Final Thoughts: The Future Isn’t Flashy—It’s Foundational
You don’t need to be the loudest voice on social media.
You need to be the one who shows up with substance.
The one who turns confusion into clarity.
The one they save, follow, and eventually message because you weren’t just chasing a moment—you were building something that lasts.
So, before your next post, ask yourself: Is this adding value, or just chasing views?
If you’re in this for the long game, choose trust over trends. It’s the only way you build a brand that works while you sleep.
Be honest... are you building trust or chasing trends?
☐ Trust all day
☐ Oof... trending too hard
☐ Working on the shift 👀
Answer in the comment section below!👇
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